What kinda of parenting do you have in mind? Strict, easy going?Ftm here!

Ginny • Hello I'm 25 and loving my life. We are expecting a little boy and I'm in love with this baby.
So I was gifted for the first 5 months of my nieces life. My sister did an amazing job while living with me. She made sure my niece had everything she needed. When my sister needed to get a few things done, of course I was up for auntie time. It really gave me a perspective on what kind of mom I want to be. Now that my son will be here very soon, I'm slowly putting together what kind of mom I want to be. It is hard because I want to baby the crap out of him but don't want him to be very dependent on me when he is older. Of course I will love and <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.nurture">nurture</a> because that is a side of me I won't ever refuse but hopefully you know what I mean. How does the balance work? When is the age to stop him being extremely dependent on me? Please be kind in advice I'm still figuring things out. Thank you gals :)