New to sex- can't orgasm during sex?

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So I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend a month ago. It wasn't really painful or anything like that and it was quite enjoyable, except that I never orgasm! We've had sex a few times since, but he's in Florida now (I'm in Ohio) because he's a marine. I really don't know anything about what I'm doing but it's really frustrating to me that I don't orgasm. He's tried to get me there, in fact, we tried several times in one night, but I never climaxed. Is this just because I'm not experienced, or...? I'm not really sure bc I'm quite new to this world and I'm still trying to figure everything out!

I will say that I've orgasmed by myself though, so I know it's possible to get me there but that was only with clit stimulation. Sometimes it takes me a while even that way to climax. So other question-is there a way to make it easier to climax?

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A lot of girls are clitoral , and cannot finish without having their clit played with . Like me lol

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To be fair, they can go and go and go all they want, but it's not going to ever happen for me without clit stimulation ;)

It's just how some people's bodies are; we're all so very different ;)

This is where you have to kind of explore with or without him, to decide what works best for you; you'll figure it out :)

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A lot of women can only climax with clit stimulation, don't worry! Unfortunately it's not as easy as it looks in a porno lol x

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Oh you will! It takes time. I remember thinking sex was sooooo boring and couldn't really understand what the fuss was about. You will get there love. You need to figure out what's good for you first!

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I read a statistic that said that somewhere between 10% and 25 % of women can climax from vaginal intrrcourse, without external stimulation. You may be in the majority, who need some 'outside help'.
That being said, it can take some time to find  your stride. You'll figure out what works for you over time. It may take some experimentation and diligent practice, but who's mad about that? 😉

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It'll take time. I didn't orgasm from sex until the third partner I was with. You must get to know your body a bit more after some experience.

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Even I also climax with clitoral stimulation. It's not going happen without it. It needs oral though to come...not without...

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I also can't orgasm without cliteral stimulation.  I found that doggy style was a great position because I can touch myself while having sex and cum that way. There are a few positions that will give you access to touch yourself.  Practice makes perfect you will get to know your body more and figure it out the more you do it and it will start getting better over time.

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I'm 22 and I still can't orgasm during sex. I'm the only person who can make myself climax :(

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I did a lot of experimenting when i masturbated,, and then when it came to having sex, I told my boyfriend what he should do to make me orgasm 😂 a vibrator works wonders too

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