Comprehending when your bf wants to branch out and have a 3some?

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Comprehending when your bf wants to branch out and have a 3some? Is that healthy for a serious relationship? He really has been bugging me about it for months should I do it? He's letting me choose who it can be with,
Ugh don't know what to do need advice, help!! Please!

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Men don't think things thru like women do. Once you bring someone else into your relationship, it opens the door for trust issues. I would have a serious talk with him, my husband knows better than to say some shit like that. He might say "I always wanted to do that" but he is too much of a jealous man to want anyone else in our bed.

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He just told me he was testing me, he said never in a million years will he let that happen, he knows how I feel about it and that I'd only do it because it's one time but he thought that was bad if I don't like something don't do it.. Then he got mad because he was like you'd really do it with my friend.. 😞

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My fiancé asked me if I wanted to have one he looked pretty serious he even told me I could pick the girls and when I said no he said he was just kidding but I feel like he just said that because I said no

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If u don't feel 100% for it dont do it.  As it ruin u both. It's such a hard situation someone is always left aside and most men will do it that way but not with another man. Only u can judge if ur strong enough as an individual and as a couple to let this happen. How would u feel him having sex in front of you with another woman can u trust him not to then go on to doing it when ur not around. Or that you both or one enjoy it that much that it would be wanted more and more then the 2 of u alone wont feel so exciting x good luck don't rush into anything if he won't wait or take no u won't do it then tell him let's try it with another bloke involved 1st lol x

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It doesn't sound like its something YOU want to do. That's reason enough to steer clear of it. Don't let him pressure you into ANYTHING.

It's also pretty disgusting that he is willing to share you with his best friend.  I'll bet they've already talked about it. Your BF doesn't sound like a very good BF.

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He wants it to be his best friend him and me, first then me another girl and then him

I just don't understand, why.. How do men comprehend this in their mind that it's a good idea?

Comprehending when your bf wants to branch out and have a 3some?

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