Just need to vent and get it out there...I think I will be done trying for a while... My husband and I have been having a  lot of arguments lately he doesn't put me first before his family and doesn't value me like he should... I treat him like the king I see him as and I get the short end of the stick I am tired just exhausted from it... Last night he told me that having sex isn't a connection to him it's jut something that feels good...So now every time I thought we had a connection Or were making love it was all one sided I feel just stupid for even thinking that...