Overly active?

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I'm 15 and have had sex with about 12 people and I'm hoping to make it 13 with my new boyfriend soon, am I a slag?

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I think it depends on why you're having sex with so many boys. Are you doing it because you're secure in your sexuality and want pleasure? Or are you doing it out of a misguided desire for intimacy? Are you trying to fill an emotional hole? Are you scared of commitment? Do you tie sexual desire to your worth as a person and feel like you don't matter unless a guy wants you?

Seriously, think about why you're doing this. One approach, if used thoughtfully and carefully with birth control and barrier methods to protect you against STIs, is okay. The other is unhealthy and could mess you up down the line.

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Make sure you're using condoms and getting tested for STIs regularly. I don't think your number matters but you gotta be responsible about it.

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I think you're being overly active. Did the people in the past even mean anything to you??

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Yes. To put it bluntly you are. I don't even care about your age it's the fact that you're using these guys like they're tissue sweetie. I highly suggest you slow down and take a breather. It's not fair to the boys you're with and when you're older and Slut shaming is more prominent you're not going to be happy with your past decisions.

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I would slow it down if I were you. Because that's a piece of you that you will never get back. Just keep in mind every guy that says they love you or like you doesn't mean you sleep with them.💔

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Be cautious. Use protection so that way you don't wind up with an STI/STD & so that way you won't get pregnant. It may seem like it won't happen to you but you'd be surprised. Make sure to take care of yourself because no one will look for you better interest as you would yourself.

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Not sure what a slag is. But in the future when you settle down and look back you may feel like you wished you hadn't shared this intimate piece of yourself with so many boys before you found the one to spend the rest of your life with.  Just a thought from experience!

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Be safe about it. (Condoms, birth control)

Overly active?

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