my hubby and I have been "actively" trying for a baby since November, but have not used protection at all since September. we still have not gotten a BFP and I'm just starting to get really discouraged. I track my cycles and my temps and everything. and I take my vitamins and we pretty much abide by everything you're "supposed to do" to get pregnant. do you have any tips on things to try to maybe help us get pregnant? there is not any medical reason we can't have kids. I just don't understand why it's not happening for us.