Friends With Benefits

I just met a man the other day from online. We have gone on two dates and FaceTime often. The sexual tension is building so fast and I don't want to give it up instantly but he makes me so comfortable and he's so attractive. I just want to have sex with him but I know it's too fast. Any tips on how to slow down or how to handle the tension? I just want to have sex so we can just get past that elephant in the room of wanting to jump each other