Mirena took my babies

Leah • Go placidly amid the noise and haste abd remember what piece there may be in silence. Surely the universe is unfolding as it should.
I've posted it before and I will post this again.  I had a Mirena IUD for a collective total of nine years. I am 35 and have three kids. 
I suspected last year that I was experiencing menopause. It took several docs appointments to talk them into even doing the bloodwork. Confirmed. 
I haven't menstruated in 3, almost 4 months. I WOULD BET MY LIFE THAT THE MIRENA CAUSED MY EARLY MENOPAUSE. Doctors will tell you that it isn't possible for it to be caused by an IUD. They. Are. Wrong. 
I am SO sad and broken trying to accept that my husband and I will never make a baby together. He only has one and wants more. I feel like I'm not worthy of him and that he should and probably will find a woman who can give him more children. He says never but....
Please please please don't get the Mirena.