My fiancé (we just got engaged 2 weeks ago) is in the military and is currently deployed! I just recently found out through one of his friends that he and a bunch of friends went to a strip club and he paid over $200 for multiple lap dances and drinks! I'm pretty upset about, mainly because when I asked him about it he didn't deny it (which Is good) but instead said that it was "fuckin hot"! What do I do?? I love him but him doing that really hurt me and I just played it off like it was ok because I don't like confrontation💔 help me!