Dear Husband,

It really hurts my feelings that when I want to make love to you, you deny me. When I clearly get upset and roll over to fall asleep, you suddenly need to shower. Then when you get out 20+min later, you try to rub on me.

I am almost asleep...the feeling is gone. The next day I open your web browser to pull up Craigslist and I see a porn site as your top hit.

That cuts deep. Deeper than when you'd rather go to work then stay home with me & the kids and play in the snow. You'd rather be out driving around with your friend then spending time with us.

I try to spend time by snuggling with you in bed all day today and when I wake you up for work the only thing you say is what time is it? So you layed in bed all day and my pants aren't clean?

Now you're at work and I'm just a ball of emotions in our empty bed. I hate feeling rejected and unloved. At least the dog cuddles me and shows me affection.

Angry & feeling unloved,

Your wife.