c-section

ok mommys im a single mommy here expecting baby #2 i had a c-section with my first due to baby not comeing out after 5 n a half hours of pushing well im getting a c-section again what should i expect will the epidural hurt more this time cuz i wont b medicated ? did any other moms have to take care a toddler n newborn alone is it hard im sorry im just worrying :(