Words of advice for my SO & I?

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Background: currently 4 months pregnant, SO and I fought in the beginning but the past month or two have worked things out. We both have issues with each other that constantly come up: he has a rebuttal and opinion for EVERYTHING that comes out of my mouth (extremely annoying to me) and he hates my nagging, which I admit to and try to work on. We're both active duty military, and currently work is extremely stressful for him, and dealing with pregnancy is hard on both of us.

Today, I told him I felt really discouraged about our relationship, and I felt like it was really hard to talk to him. (Every time I try and  express my feelings, he bashes them and says I'm completely wrong for feeling that way) his reply was this (summarized): "you take things out of context, I can't deal with you and work right now, I need to focus on school, I'm starting to think you should just break up with me, if you want to move out for a while you have my blessing. You're driving me to the point of breaking my sobriety" (he quit alcohol a year ago)

My question is: what do I do? Do I leave for a while? Do I try to talk things out? I really felt like we would be able to work through these life stressors, but he's never brought up splitting up before, and I don't know how to react to it. 
Any advice or personal experience is appreciated.

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First off, congratulations! Secondly, my husband and I are former navy, so I understand the stress. The best thing I can tell you is to ask yourself if you love him and more importantly do you want you innocent baby in that type of environment? That will answer your question. My husband gets stressed a little to easy in my opinion but his job is a lot harder. I nag too but I have a system for everything and it has to be that way or I feel like my world will fall apart. I've learned from our 4 years that I just have to give him space and when I'm preggo, I have to be more independent and understanding. 
Your a services women and soon to be mom, you have to be stronger and kinder than humanly possible. 
Best of luck love.

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Work it out together and compromise and ask yourself do the good outweigh the bad

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Get into couples counseling ASAP! In the meantime, you both need to stop being at each other's throat's so much. Anytime you feel like something needs to be argued about, please ask yourself if peace is more important than it is. Is peace in my home more important than this? This question keeps my home peaceful 99% of the time. Unless there is a huge issue, most things are not that big of a deal. You need to have a peaceful environment for your newborn baby to come into. It's more important than anything you want to nag him about.

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My husband is active duty and I'm a stay at home mom and I have seen him be so stressed and when I was emotional and pregnant with our daughter I'm sure I nagged more than humanly possible and was overly sensative. Maybe take a mini vacation and just you for stay with family for a week or two and come back refreshed and maybe give it a second shot and if that doesn't work maybe consider other options.

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Well I don't know what you should do but he's sure being an ass with saying you should break up with him. If he wants a break up tell him that he has to tell you that and that you're not leaving if eyes still hope. Bring up the idea of couples counseling maybe?

Words of advice for my SO & I?

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