Would you the think you SO is gay if....

Jazmin
Would you think you SO is gay if he let you use a strap on him or finger or lick his butt. 
 I saw something nd someone said they use a strapon on there husband nd said it was just kinky. If my spouse asked me that i would be very disturbed nd probably leave him but to each its own.. 
Your opinion ladies??
Edit:: ok so grant it the g spot is in a males butt so i can understand it being stimulated by a finger or tongue nd that would MAYBE be doAble but i dont like the idea of putting a penus shaped toy in my spouse ass that is definatly gay in my book