What to do when you hate giving BJs

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I've been with my hubby for many years and in the beginning of our relationship I did give BJs sporadically out of guilt (feeling like I had to). I haven't given him one in probably a couple years though and I feel really bad about it. I really hate hate HATE doing them. It grosses me out and I feel like vomitting the whole time. Any suggestions?

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I don't like doing it soooo I don't do it!! He doesn't do that for me but, complains that I don't give him head ... I say ..Suck it up butter cup you don't do anything for me 😂

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I hate it too.  So, I just don't do them.

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I used to do it but not really anymore it makes me gag tbh not cos of him just don't like anything at the back of my throat ! Just tell him how u fell reassure him that it's nothing to do with him it's just your personal preference, I did and my man totally understands, good luck x

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Having been sexually  abused by an ex my so understands why I hate doing it and doesn't even ask for them, I wouldn't worry about it if he isn't asking for them, if he asks for them just explain why you don't like giving them and hope he understands...

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My hubby bought some flavored gel (not numbing) to get me to do it lol. It's okay. I just do it every once in a while. Not often. I dint care for it,  but he makes sacrifices for me,  so I make them for him

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Well, you really need to figure out what exactly about it grosses you put and makes you want to vomit, and go from there. I'm sure the merest something that you or he can do that would make it more enjoyable for you

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I absolutely hate giving BJs also, I also do them out of putty especially since I haven't really been into sex since we got pregnant. Sometimes we use flavored condoms and those help. The sour apple ones aren't bad then your can't really "taste it" which always makes me gag.

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Every once in a while I'll put whip cream or chocolate sauce on the tip and it helps so much!!!!

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I love giving them, but I am horrible at it, and can never get my SO to cum... Advice on that one?

What to do when you hate giving BJs

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