My boyfriend of 3 years a couple of weeks got into a car accident. Typically he's very upset - he won't sleep or eat and every time I try to help him or get him to tell me what's wrong he brushes it off and tells his mates. I feel so left out and I want to care for him and make sure he is okay. He's changed too...(just everything about what I fell in love with) and this hadn't just happened after the accident but before - I feel like some things he does get on my nerves and this year I've got concentrate about school and my sport. does this mean it's time to break up or just keep fighting??