What is this, Mean Girls in real life?! Misconceptions about sexuality.

Why is it that, as women, we can't support each other? Why do I see so many of you tearing each other down? I just joined this app and have noticed some absolute crazymaking on here.

This is mostly prompted by the thread where the 21 year old said she'd had sex with 35 guys, but it's also prompted by some of the general bullying I've seen here. It is some of the most disappointing and hateful BS I've ever seen.

(1) Her body, her choice. That goes for ALL of you. You waited until marriage? Great! You made the decision that was best for YOU. That doesn't mean it's best for everyone, or that you're somehow more "pure". Get off your high horse.

Never met an erection you didn't like? Great! You made the decision that was best for YOU. That doesn't mean that everyone else is somehow sheltered, ignorant, or naive. Get yours, and get on with your life, and let everyone else get on with theirs.

(2) What's with the misconception about multiple partners making a woman a deviant? It's like, if she has sex with one dude 50 times she's golden. But if she has sex with 50 dudes 1 time each, her vagina somehow magically stretches into a black hole. Is that logical? No! It's a stupid way for people to shame each other for no good reason. Cut that sh** out.

(3) Her life, her choice. Decided to become a stay at home mom and take care of your husband and multiple children? Awesome! You go girl! You make the life you want. This doesn't mean that the woman who choose her career and says she never wants kids is a frigid, heartless b****.

And hey, career woman--decided to pursue your dream of becoming the next Sara Blakely? Great! Go get yours! But don't sit here acting as though the women who chose the family life are "holding women back" or are somehow less than you.

It's all about empowering each other to make the choices that are best for us individually. We should be building each other up, giving each other a leg up, and being supportive--NOT tearing each other down.

On Wednesdays, we wear whatever the f*** we want. Because we are powerful, beautiful, majestic, FEMALE. Let's act like decent human beings and recognize the value in each other as part of the same struggle, please!