Should I lower my expectations?

Couple of examples- 
Bought a sexy corset, boyfriend barely (if any) reacted and automatically sat and played computer games 
At Christmas I dropped several hints that I wanted a HONY book, but I got a jewellery box (I don't even own any) 
I don't know if I am being unfair to expect more? 
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