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I'm 16 and lately I'v been having these feelings of waned to get pregnant🤔
I know it might be a bad idea if you think so please try to talk me out of it 
Because right now I'm confused of what I want 😅 and the other thing the person I want to get pregnant with is my boyfriend and I know he doesn't want a kid but I want his child

HELP!!!!! I just am having so may mixed thoughts

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Get a puppy. It's not as expensive or time consuming as a child but will help you understand the simple responsibilities and help you realize a child will be a lot more work.

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I go through these phases too and believe me, you get over them. You don't really want to deal with a kid 24/7 right now anyways. You need to enjoy your life and have fun. You'll know when the time is right for a baby

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Borrow someone else's baby for a while (and make sure it's a cryer!) you'll change your mind real quick!..;)

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I would wait . I felt the same thing you are at 18 ... Then I had my baby at 20. (Unintentionally) but I wasn't 100% ready . Luckily my mom helped . Now I'm stable & have my own place a year later .... It's hard I promise . But you're young still , please experience life . & trust me , nothing is worst than having a child with a guy who doesn't want to have one . Or your parenting styles don't mix

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Please don't!! Especially if you know he isn't ready. That is entrapment and if you do get pregnant he may not have to be financially responsible for the child, even if it is his. I'm 23 and currently pregnant with my first. Yes it's exciting but it can also be stressful. Especially beacuse we just moved to a new state, I started a new job, & we are wanting to buy a house. Plus we also had bought a new truck before moving. Please take the time to finish school, get out on your own and see what the world is like when you have that car payment, and rent due, along with everything else and see if you're ready then.

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There's wanting to be pregnant, and there's actually getting pregnant. Are you financially ready? Do you have a stable job and income to support your baby? Do you have somewhere to live? Are you going to have to lean on the back of someone else to survive? Would your parents support you? Personally, I think you're still a child, you may think you're mature, I thought I was at 16, but you're really not. You probably haven't had any real life experience! I hope this doesn't come across as harsh, I hope you understand.

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