Really upset with doc and hospital.

Kristine • After 6 years ttc, we are finally pregnant. I have an 8 year old son and have been married for almost 10 years.
So I am 3 days over due today. I went In for an appointment and I am still not dilated past 1 and not thinned out. I asked for an induction. He scheduled it for NEXT Monday. Wtf!!! 41+ weeks...no way. So I called the hospital to see if they would get me in sooner, even just a few days. NOOO!!! I am not having this baby a week from now for so many reasons. My mil is coming befor then from Alaska. She wants to see her grandson when she is here. Two, now way in hell I am having my baby on my aunts b day. I would never hear the end of it. 
So, for the second time this week, I took castor oil. This shit better work. Any other ideas, beside the usual because I have tried it all, let me know!!! I don't care to hear your neg comments on castor oil, cause I don't feel the same as you. I've done my research and there is no evidence that it is bad for you or baby!