Guess I need to talk to someone, I just went through a ectopic pregnancy in The first weeks of Jan We are trying for a second child. Daughter has been wanting a sibling and we wanted to grow our family. Did not have much choice that I understand ... Now I have to deal with some one I work with who is   Pregnant. I guess I should be happy for but it hurts . She already has 2 kids with two different dads , and now she just got knocked up by a different guy ... Worst part she dose not want the kid but the money she gets from having the kid .... I just don't get how people can be so greedy. I am greatful for my daughter now who although was 2 1/2 months early made it through.  It just seem like the more you try the less chance you will have a child and those who just sleep around get pregnant so easy . I know that hurtful but I guess I'm kinda bitter still . Any thoughts ? Tips on how to deal?