Should i let him eat me out?

Question

Hello. My boyfriend just recently expressed he wants to try to eat me out. Aka perform oral. Ive heard it feels great but im scared i might taste bad or smell weird. I have great hygiene, but whats the proper prep? Most people i talk to say "just let it happen". I want too but ahhhh im nervous. Help!

Answer

Ahh the best advice I can give - and it's something that can take years to learn, is that not only is sex waaay better for you when you're uninhibited, but guys LOVE it when it's like that. Many of us femmes have so many conflicting ideas about how we should be, how guys want us to be, guys don't care about half the stuff we do. They really really don't.

Specifically though, when I was younger (and if there was an opportunity to) I would wash myself down there before getting oral. With soap - just a little - and inside - either with a shower or getting water and rinsing with fingers. Rinsing and rinsing it out with water.  And of course they say you shouldn't wash yourself inside at all, and I'm sure there are valid reasons, so as a disclaimer I'm just telling you what I did.

But more generally, if a guy wants to go down on you, it means he likes a certain kind of sex. The good kind. Lap it up, literally! Don't worry there won't be any problems with the taste/hygiene AT ALL, and he'll love it. Most of all, he'll love it if you love it.

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I felt exactly the same way you did! I just make sure to always be clean down there. As for your smell, all vaginas smell a certain way and that doesn't mean it smells bad. I'm pretty sure he won't mind. I was always so nervous when my boyfriend asked me if it was okay to do it, I always said no bc I was nervous I'd smell / taste weird. But then one day I was like "fuck it, whatever" and I just let it happen 😂. It's really one of the best sexual experience one can experience as a woman.

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Go for it! It's incredible, just stay natural - don't put soap in your vagina, that's not good and he doesn't want to taste soap he wants to taste you!

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Id say just shave and rinse with water but don't use soap. Other than that he won't care and it feels amazing a little awkward at first but then Soo good

Should i let him eat me out?

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