My fiance has 2 boys from a previous relationship a 3 and a 4 year old. Before I moved in he used to have both of them sleep in the bed with him after a year we finally got them to sleep in their own beds. My fiance wants to start sleeping with them again since we only get them on the weekends should I let him he said sometimes he just wants to cuddle with them, but I'm afraid it will mess with the routine and they will fall back into their old pattern? I get he wants to cuddle with them while they are still little I just don't want it to ruin the pattern, I'm open to suggestions :)