so my mother in law told me my job as a woman is to cook clean take care of kids n work n not expect my hard working husband to do anything... she informed me the bathroom which is basicially ours since its next to the garage that i have to clean it not his nephew or cousin who use it as well n dnt help... she said my grand kids dont do chores cuz thats how my daughter is raising her kids... but its ur job to help do the dishes n make sure ur room is clean while working ... so if i dnt comply im considered lazy ... i feel theres no reason y my husband who works the same hours i do who gets a nap i dont cant help me.. but apparently im supposed to do it all...