When is it safe to have sex!?

Question

Okay so I am a virgin! Me and my fiancé are both waiting until marriage for that (8 months to go woo!) ! I started birth control (the patch you take it off every Sunday and put a new one on) just so I would be regulated before we get married and I am absolutely clueless to sex to be honest! That's going to be interesting for both of us, but even talking to my gynecologist I seem to still not understand when is it safe to have sex and not get pregnant! We both want to enjoy our selfs since we've waited this long until we have a kid. 
But I don't know when does your fertile window open! I usually am off my period 3 weeks and start Wednesday the 4th week. 
I just don't want to get pregnant on the honeymoon if we don't use protection!! :) Anyone have their so or husband that started off clueless who can help!? (Isn't he adorable :)

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I have only had sex with 2 guys, my ex and my love now. I wish i waited for the right one, and im glad to see someone wait, most of the time people loose their virginity as early as 12. I did at 13, i didnt want to. Its smart to be smart about it i wish i was, good luck :)

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I read this book called "Sheet Music." It is a book for couples to do together. It is designed for those who are waiting till marriage!
About birth control and safe sex- you can have sex at any point during your cycle as long as you are using your patch as directed.

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You two are adorable. It's good you are being smart about sex. Have you talked to your gyno about a birth control you don't have to remember daily, like the depo shot? I know how exciting honeymoons are and if you aren't ready for a baby yet, I would look into that so you don't have to remember to take a pill every day or use protection like condoms and you can just enjoy each others company without worry.

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If you're on birth control, you don't have to be worried about getting pregnant.

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My hubby and I were both virgins as well. It seems so unheard of these days so it is nice to see :). You guys will figure it out, that's all the fun! You may not be successful the first time but try try again. And when you get it right it is the most beautiful feeling when you both connect. Make sure he spends time relaxing you downstairs as you will be understandably tight. Take your time and have fun! If you are on birth control you should be fine without condoms.. obviously they tell you bc is 99.9% affective (so that slight chance lol). And if you do get pregnant, it's not the end of the world! Also, be sure to not be afraid to vocalize when he does something right or wrong as awkward as it may seem! They aren't mind readers! Enjoy and have fun!!!! :)

When is it safe to have sex!?

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