When i announced I was pregnant it seemed too impossible for some friends.

I posted on social media I was pregnant, and I had a lot of good feed back but I had some people refer to the baby as a "it" and I'm like the baby is not a "it" like my friend said "what will you name it!?" Maybe I'm just being a little to sensitive? I  just don't like referring to my baby as"it" also the worst comment was from a close friend who txt me asking "is this for real?" I got offended actually like I felt like saying "no I'm lying and posting it to the world for attention " like how stupid .. I txt back saying "of course this baby is for real, why wouldn't it be?" She txt back saying sorry . Just you realize how some comments can really make you think some people just have no manners ..