Am i over reacting?

Cinthya
Okay so my fiance is a chef, he works everyday all day from 10-10 and on weekends from 10-11. The only day he gets off are mondays. We havent been on a date for god knows how long and last night we finally went out and it started out good we went bowling and after we went to edo japan. He opened the door and i was about to walk in when he sees a "friend" &basically ran to hug her before i could even walk in. He asked for her to be our waitress and the whole time she was with us, i feel like they were on a date. They didnt even acknowledge me there & when i did try to join the conversation they would just like be quiet and then go back to talking about whatever it was that they were talking about. I just left it alone i thought maybe they just hadn't  seen each other in a long time and were just catching up but when we left he was like "See you wednesday"...... I was like what? And she was like yeah he comes here like every other day, but just to pick up food for his boss. 😒 on the way home he kept on talking and talking about her and how i should get a job waitressing like her and what not. And when we finally got home he was like are you mad or something? & i just told him Like is it not obvious? You just had dinner with your waitress who you come and talk to every other day. And he said i was being dramatic 🙄
It just made me mad that we never have time to actually go out and enjoy ourselfs and when we finally do it wasnt even a date for us. And i also brought up how they went 2 hours having a full on conversation, and when i try to talk to him hes always like oh im tired lets talk about it some other day or sometimes he'll even tell me to shut up cause his head hurts or some other excuse😟