So me n my so have been going back on forth about me being pregnant. He feels as though I should abort the baby as of now I'm 12 weeks now I'm pro choice depending on the circumstances (rape,incest etc) we have 2 boys already he has "2" other kids with different women. And yes our living situation isn't the best but we make due until we find our own place we both lost our jobs back to back. I basically begged my gma to leg stay so he wouldn't be homeless and no I didn't get pregnant in her home . My child is not a accident or mistake how dare he tell me I'm not having a kid so since he feels so strong about it I said its either 3 options.

1. You gtfo and I'll raise my babies by myself

2. You accept the fact we made this baby and we are going to do out best to raise it

3. Or I can opt of adoption which would crush my soul but at least the baby has a chance of being alive and can go to family that can give it everything they deserve.

Now I know I'm going to get alot of negative comments please understand I in know way want to abandon my child. But if that's what's best then I have no choice I couldn't see myself going to a abortion clinic at 14+wks. He just doesn't understand this baby is living and breathing inside of me not him. It just pissed me off u say u love me but yet u want me to kill someone that I'm growing to love. (I saw that bcuz my emotions are all over the place)