Okay ladies this is more geared more to the veteran mommys out there. This is my first baby and according to Glow I am 4 wks 2 days. I had a slight pudgy stomach before I was pregnant but it wasn't bad. Now I'm looking more along the line of 3 months. I know it's all bloat but does it go away? I'm not quite ready to tell my family until I know the baby is strong, healthy and growing properly but it's going to be hard to keep it a secret if I keep expanding like this. What are some things to help, if any, and when will my baby bump show versus the bloat?