Boyfriend watching porn?

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I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. I'm 18 and he's 21, we have sex around 4 times a week but he still feels the need to watch porn! And I just don't know how I feel about it? Give me some advice please!!

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Personally, I think porn in general is wrong by how it completely objectified people and often men become so accustome to it that they will have less sex with their ladies because of that bit on the side. 
It is a huge temptation for people/guys, but I believe he is respecting you by not getting hot in other women! 
Yes most guys struggle with this, it doesn't make it right. If you are committed to one another, show it. 
I wouldn't freak at him, but express how it clearly makes you uncomfortable.

(My husband works out of town for days on end and we talk about how that is a temptation that he has to fight while he is there and away from me, but he feels man enough to have a will power against temptation.) Maybe your man can see this too?

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My boyfriend watches porn, I watch porn, hell we watch porn together on occasion (it can be fun to imitate during sex) plus we have a quite healthy sex life.

Most people watch porn at some point, even if they don't admit it. It's not a matter of the sex not being enough or the SO not being good enough (in most cases), it's just something sexy to get off to that's not sex or can be used to prep for sex.

I'm not telling you to just be ok with it because if you're not you're not. But maybe try to ask him and understand why he watches. If anything I just wouldn't expect him to stop.

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My boyfriend also watched porn. But our sex life is crap due to work. It bothers me massively, I've told him he can only do it (if he has to) as long as I'm not home.

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Porn isn't bad it's only a problem if they'd rather watch porn and masturbate than have sex with you. Mabye you can start watching it yourself or watch it with him if you are comfortable with that

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My boyfriend and I both watch porn, it's nothing bad. We don't do it to get hype. It's me for new ideas or out of boredom.

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honestly it's a good thing. Studies show that porn can make a relationship healthier and stronger. It's not a big deal. I know some women see it as cheating, but I just don't understand that. In fact to be it's the exact opposite, it's a healthy way to express you curiosity with out brettaying anyone. I do it, he does it. It makes us more aware and open. You can't be too controlling, no on wants to feel controlled in a relationship. just remember that.

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I don't really mind, he may just have a higher sex drive, my boyfriend also watches a lot of porn (he learns tips though😉bonus) at first I felt uncomfortable and sometimes thought 'maybe I'm not pleasuring him enough'
I soon realised its normal, and it's just something in life. 
Don't stress too much.
One thing you can do, one night he's watching porn, buy a vibrator (if you don't have one) sit next to him and start playing with yourself and watch the porn too. It really sets the mood.

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I don't mind it

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He doesn't love u

Boyfriend watching porn?

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