Angry. Anybody else?

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I deleted my fb app today. Had another friend post she's pregnant. This makes number four. Plus I have two sister in laws pregnant. Been trying for 2 years and had a miscarriage. Saw a specialist and found out right after we had conceived on our own. I just can't handle everyone's happy announcement. Its like a stabbing knife in my heart every time!

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Oh i feel you!!! We miscarried and had the D&C 3 and a half weeks ago..  my sister in law is pregnant.... 3 of my friends are expecting and today i hear another friend is 10 weeks pregnant (i saw her a few weeks back chain smoking as usual) - not criticising, but we do EVERYTHING by the book.... and yet here I sit, not pregnant and having to wait until 4weeks post op to hear when we can start trying again and if they perhaps figured out why i had the mc 😯😕.... i want ti be happy for everyone else who is pregnant.... its just so so difficult

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I know how you feel. I miscarried at 11 weeks 2 days...the baby measured 8 weeks and 5 days. We've been trying for a year and half. I deleted every social media I had. It all had to go for me to survive. Maybe one day it will come back, but not right now. I find myself angry that when my world stopped every thing else just kept on going. Its starting to feel like it never happened and it never existed and that it was all just a dream.

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I know exactly hoe you feel.. Im not mad at pregnant ladies but i sure as hell dont exactly like them right now..

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I get angry all the time,even though right after I ask God for forgiveness. I work at a hobby lobby and so many pregnant women come in and I can't deal, but I think I took my first step to feeling a little bit better yesterday I actually played with an infant and didn't cry one day at a time good luck to all

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I know how you feel it so hard!! My "best friend" who has 2 kids with 2 guys and now getting divorced and back with the first guy, sent me her positive pregnancy test 2 days after my miscarriage started.... Needless to say I have not been talking to her, I just can't. This is such a hard thing to go through. There are so many of us feeling the way you do!

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I totally understand. It's really hard when you feel like everyone around you has the ONE THING you want the most. I know do many couples that have gotten pregnant and given birth and I'm still ttc after my mc. It's hard, but I try to stay positive....I can't let myself be upset all the time.

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I had a difficult time getting pregnant after my miscarriage and it was hard seeing everyone around me announce their pregnant especially a welfare queen. It is hard but try to be happy for them you don't know what kind of hardship they had getting pregnant 
But getting angry doesn't help either I'm 19 wks now and still worry about my baby.

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I'm so glad I'm not alone. Don't hate em and I'm happy they are but I sure as hell don't wanna hear about it! Lol

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Brandy, I know exactly how you feel! I just deleted that shit today! My sister posted a " baby bump" photo and it sent me off the deep end! It's especially hard when you friends and family know what you went through was so hard, but yet still do things selfishly not thinking of how it will effect someone else who's hurting! I definitely can agree with you on feeling angry, I have been feeling a lot of that lately. Towards people and there stupid comments to try and make you feel better like... " well at least you guys are blessed in the housing department" or " you know it's kind of like when your dog dies you are sad but then you get over it the next week". I can tell you the anger doesn't go away for quite some time! Right now you have to protect yourself from social media and people who haven't gone through what you have. Pregnant people.. You should probably stay away from for a while, that will bring a lot of sadness.

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I hear you completely. I had two back to back mc and I feel everyone I know is pregnant or just had a baby. What keeps me sane is that I'm on my own journey and no one else's. For some reason these are the cards I was dealt and I can only be hopeful that i will have a happy ending. Perhaps I needed to really feel a void before truly appreciating the life I want to bring into the world. Either way chin up and stay strong. There is power in good positive thoughts. ☺️

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