Is it wrong that I don't want to take the baby out to any bbqs, or any type of get togethers. ? My husband doesn't understand why I don't want to him out. I understand he's probably excited about having his baby . But I just don't think it's safe, I don't want random people holding him. Kissing him etc etc. not only that but my son is literally 5 days old. I'm a new mom just getting used to things. I'm still healing. He just doesn't get it. Smh