FTM... Help me heal!!

Monica
Ladies, what do you recommend for healing the lady bits after a vaginal delivery?? I've been told granny panties, depends, and maxi pads. But, I'm also hearing we need some products to help with inflammation. What helps and what should I buy!?!  Witch hazel?  Tucks pads?  Aloe Vera?  Please help!?!?  TIA