I hate the word and I think it should be used very carefully. When I was 15 I was friends/liking the attention of a male. He wanted to have sex and I was really uncomfortable and unsure, I said I didn't want to but he pulled my clothes off and started having sex with me. I did not try and push him off me but I did say no various times and I was very scared being so young so I ended up letting him continue. Is this rape? It turns out I also contracted herpes from him which is an incurable disease.