Ex pregnant girlfriend moving on.?

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So I left her 4 weeks ago and she moved out. She's 20 weeks pregnant and she's decided to talk to other men (I don't think she will have sex. I just think she likes the attention) I just can't get over it though, I still have feelings for her. I just think she's being a dirty whore. She begged me every day for the past month to re consider our relationship and I kept saying no but now I feel like I want her. I don't know what to do?

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Am I reading this right? You left her. And calling her a dirty whore really shows your character. You don't deserve her, she needs to find someone who would step up unlike you. You can't have your cake and eat it too buddy.

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I hope she finds a lovely man who wouldn't 'dump' her when she's carrying his child and then continue to play with her emotions.

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You don't know what to do? Grow up, man up, and never call the mother of your child a "dirty whore" ever again.

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Sounds to me like a simple case of you want what you can't have.

If my husband left me,of course I'd be devastated. And of course I'd beg him to stay. But,if he refused to stay, then there really isn't a choice but to try and move on.

Also...she's being a "dirty whore"? She's single.... And if you had feelings for her like you say you do, then you'd refer to her with higher respect.

Also- you're about to get a lot of hate from a lot of women regarding this disgusting post. You deserve it.

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This can't be a real post. ?

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Go play in traffic for calling the mother of your child a dirty whore. You left her she happy who cares what she's doing. Just be there for the child leave her be

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You're and idiot (and I mean that very kindly. I've been the same kind of idiot, too, as was my ex). A lot of us do that. We get all wishy washy, trying to get all the things we want and not have to let other people get what they want. My ex (who I love) wanted me to be Catholic. I wanted him to have kids with me. He kept leading me on even though he really wanted me to change religions and he knew o couldn't. Eventually I gave him four months to decide if he was ever interested in having kids with me, and he did nothing. And Then after four and a half months (knowing full well that I started dating after his four months were up), he asked for me back. Which made me cry because I love him, but I can't just let him control my life if he doesn't want to do anything for me either. And I KNOW that he feels the same about me not becoming Catholic. You two had a choice. Stay together or Coke apart. You chose come apart. You don't get to undo it now. She can see whoever she wants now. I will say that you calling her a whore indicates that she's probably right to be gone though. You had your chance, she's not your girl.

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Sounds like you're getting what you deserve. I hope they fall in love and live happily ever after while your sorry ass sits and sobs over something you caused. What a dumbass 😂

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Sounds like she's better off without you. Good luck trying to be a better dad than you are a man.

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Jesus christ, you women are so quick to judge. If it were a woman who dumped her man and was begging for him back she would get all kinds of support, but if it's a man he's the scum on the earth...
I don't know under what circumstances you left her, but ultimately you're the only one here who knows. She's asking for you back, and you're considering it. I suggest you two sit down and talk about your differences until you come to a conclusion. Whether it be to get back together, or to move on.
Best of luck to you, and I hope she has a healthy pregnancy.

Ex pregnant girlfriend moving on.?

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