Advice, please? 😕

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So, my boyfriend & I ALWAYS have protected sex, but sometimes he'll ask if he can go raw . I sometimes want him to go raw, but because I'm not on pills or anything else, I depend on the condom. What should I do? What can I get or take? I'm in a difficult situation due to the fact that my parents don't know I'm sexually active & I live with them & my mom is pretty religious. "Wait till marriage." & I just don't want to get caught with pills & I don't want to get pregnant.

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Research the different types of birth controls to see what you would most prefer, talk to your doctor and explain, they won't tell your parents, it's good that you're aware of being cautious before allowing him to go without a condom. Talk to your bf as well and explain, until I'm on birth control, we have to use the condom as a precaution. He should be understanding and not push you. You can also check out planned parenthood and ask for advice if you're worried about the doctor. Smart thinking on your part hun❣

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If you are not on birth control don't not use a condkm

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Get birth control. There is the mirena, the shot, the thingy that goes in your arm. They're not noticeable. I'm sorry I wish I could help with your parent problem. My mom told me she can't tell me not to have premarital sex because I did it, but she'd get me whatever I needed

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When I was in high school I lost my virginity. First time we went in raw but he strapped on a condom before he was about to cum. I didn't get on birth control until a little after I turned 18. I was on the depo but that made my periods irregular so I went on the pills. Best decision I ever made. My mom knew that I was on the pill but since I don't get any action now I'm no longer on birth control. Lol go to planned parenthood they can help. It's free well for me it was and you're mom won't know. Take your pill before bed so she won't see and im sure you have a mom that doesn't snoop but still hide it so no one else but you can get ahold of it. (: hope you find a solution!

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Depo is a shot you get every three months. I loved it when I was on it.

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Depending on how old you are, my doctors exact words, they can give you birth control without your parents ever knowing

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I am in the same situation, except my boyfriend can't seem to stay hard with a condom on. So we resort to foreplay to finish the job. I live with my mom (religious) and she also doesn't know I am sexually active either. What I did is the day I got my period I called my gyno and they asked me to come in the exact day to get a depo shot.

This form of birth control is private since you get a vaccine every 3 months, so no pills, no daily reminders, no forgeting to take it, mom can't randomly find it in your bag or room.

In the end you are keeping yourself safe and your privacy safe. Just remember to maintin a honest and transparent relationship with your bf so you dont cotneact an STD. Birh control is good hut it wont protect you from that stuff.

Honesty is key.. Yal should even get tested for stds before going raw. Btw no birth control is 100% pregnancy preventable. So pull out when its time just to keep to safe.

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Try going raw at the beginning and then when he feels like he's going to cum have him put on a condom and finish the job so he isn't completely worried about pulling out in time And can go all in with pleasing you and himself

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I know it's tempting but stick with the condom. My parents were the same way and I went through the health department (health departments don't give information to anyone if you request it, not even your parents.) and it was free. Have you thought about the depo shot? I applaud you for wanting to stick with protection:) I'd keep using the condom if you're not on other protection, just in case.

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If you go to the doctor and get a Mirena your parents won't know. I snuck around with pills because my parents didn't know I was sexually active. I mean of course now they do. I'm 21 and I live with my boyfriend.

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