TTC- not seeing positive test

I never thought it would be difficult to conceive. You hear of so many unplanned pregnancies and you think when you start trying that it would just happen on the first try like BAM! I have cousins and siblings that look at a penis and end up pregnant. I know that some people are on year 2+ of TTC and two month in is no big deal but goodness knowing that you are doing everything from tracking to lifting your legs in the air after sex just seems crazy. I keep reading things about continuing to make it fun while trying but how do you do that when you are not getting the results you want? 
I sound like a complainer.. How do you deal with not conceiving when you really want it?