omg I am so mad!

Ok so I was giving away a 250 dollar item it's baby/ children related. I wanted to give it to someone for free that needed it. Someone who could afford it on their own. I stated this is the ad. I said please don't just ask for it because it's brand names. One lady I know asked first ( rules of the site is you have to give it to whoever asks first) has a good job, lives in a nice area of town, is well off didn't need the item at all so I told her no sorry I want to give it to a lady who is a single mother who didn't even have a car and baby was in nicu. I thought she would agree and understand but instead She reported me and got me kicked off the site :( I didn't even get to defend myself