Today I went in for my first doctor's appointment and found out I miscarried two weeks ago. My family as well as my boyfriend's family are completely overjoyed at the fact that I had a miscarriage considering I am only 17 years old and it was unplanned. Despite the unfortunate circumstances surrounding the pregnancy because of my age, how is losing my baby a good thing? Why is everyone so happy? Why does no one understand that I am grieving the loss of my child. I understand that having a baby at 17 would have been an extremely difficult situation but that doesn't mean I'm happy that I lost my first child. How am I supposed to get through this