What is s&m?

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Always been curious but never thought to find out

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It's sadism/masochism. Do NOT take your views on it from 50 shades, it isn't accurate at all and makes it look like a seriously unhealthy relationship. A healthy relationship involving this will have communication, not threats to track someone down. It will have boundaries that BOTH parties agree to, and when/if those boundaries are pushed both parties consent to this and are fully aware that they can stop it at anytime if they want to. No one in a healthy s/m relationship should leave a session feeling violated, attacked or scared. A lot of people even feel closer, calm or exhilarated. My fiance and I were very involved in this before I became pregnant and our play times were sometimes just wild and crazy and other times very romantic and passionate, even when involving these practices. It can involve so many different things, depending on the couple and what they like. Light spanking to heavy flogging, slapping to punching, biting, choking, bondage, control games, electricity play, burning and cutting. It can be whatever you like and being open to some things doesn't mean you need to do everything.
If yoy do decide to give it a shot, remember safety comes first. You could try talking to the merchants of sex shops, getting books or watching movies for ideas. I'd give more advice, but it can get too graphic for such a public space.

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Sadism / masochism

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Some
Fifty shades of grey kinda kink. lol

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Submissive and master

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As someone who always needs a plan, who tells people what to do (I'm my own boss), who has to take care of every little thing every day, s&m, or bdsm, is a way for me to let my SO take over everything. I trust him to take care of me, but to push me, to stretch my limits and my imagination, to take control so I no longer have to worry about anything else. He gets dominant, and helps me feel like I am someone who needs the bit of pain, the discomfort, the pleasure, so that I may learn who I really am. In no way is it "rape with consent". It's making love, it's turning over control while still having a say. Seriously though? Don't knock it until you try it.

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Pseudo masochism

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