I just need to vent. My husband and I got into a fight a couple weeks ago bc he says I'm boring/he's bored in our relationship. So I've stepped it up in the bedroom and have been putting in tons of extra effort. Tonight we were talking about where to eat for valentines (he hates it says it's a made up holiday and I'm a child when it comes to holidays) well he said lets go to a pub and get drunk (I hate drinking) I said no I'm not drinking and he got pissed off and went to his friends. He text me 4 hours later and said he was going to come home and get clothes to change so he could go out and drink with the guys and that I wouldn't be as fun to go with. What's the deal? Yes I use to drink in college with my friends and with him. No I don't like drinking now bc he only wants me to drink for sexual reasons. I'm almost to my limit. I don't know how much more I can take.