My ex did the same thing to me as well he was abusive to even during my pregnancy he cheated on me many times and from the last one he got the herps lol... Thankfully I didn't catch it, he ailonated me from all my family and friends and was always getting high and leaving me to hang out with his friends all day and he was 23 I was 16 when I got pregnant with my oldest son and even at that age my life changed forever, however he was still a child there was never any man in his blood and there never be.... He went to prison for a probation violation when my oldest son was 3 and that's when I saw my window to get out... I was 7 months pregnant with my ex's baby and just as friends started talking and hanging out with my ex's old best friend and we fell fast and hard for each other and a month later I was married to my best friend... My ex has absolutely nothing to do with my boys but my husband has raised both of them as his own and if you asked him they are his children... Karma is a motherf*cker... Good things happen to good people and people who do good... As for the rest of the homewreckers and douche bags you get wat you deserve... Last I heard my ex is missing a front tooth hahahahaha, and his new girlfriend ran him over with a car and he now has a baby on the way with her... I guess he is gonna TRY to play daddy again for a few months, feel terrible for the baby she is strung out on meth and he is a piece of shit, so I'm assuming I will be calling CPS on them within the year... ~My Life is wonderful now and I thank my ex every day for being so terrible, cause I can appreciate all that much more a real man, father, and husband...~ - http://glowing.com/community/topic/852900?utm_source=android&utm_medium=shared_to_third_party&utm_campaign=glow_community