Sex during pregnancy after mc?

Courtnie • Mother of a crazy little 1 and a half year old, and angel baby and another on the way.
4weeks 5 days, curious if anyone is on pelvic rest? We had a miscarriage in october and we're kind of scared to have sex. Going to the doctor on the 29th so idk if it's safe or not. We were going to try to make it the first trimester without having sex but now I think we'll try to wait till our doctors appt. Anyone in the same boat?