I could really use a friend right now

Kayyyy
I have been with my boyfriend for three years and we live together . Sex has always been an issue for me he's ok with like once or twice a month and I would like at least once a week but I compromised because I love him . Well along with that I started to feel like emotionally he was pulling away . I felt no connection and I have gone back and fourth with my feelings I have communicated to him how I feel and what I need and it fell on deaf ears. He has had slot on his plate with some legal stuff from his past and a deadline to hire a lawyer and get it handled so he could start this amazing job he was offered . Two weeks ago on Saturday we woke up and hegor right out of bed grabbed the dogs and put them in the bed and cuddled them and didn't even acknowledge me and I told him I just couldn't do it anymore and he needed to move out and so he left for a few days explained he didn't want to break up and that he felt like maybe going to his moms where he can save money and get this stuff handled and we can work on our relationship . He said things will all make sense when we can buy a house Ina. Few years and I know I've neglected you but I've been stressed out I felt like he still wasent getting that I needed him emotionally and physically and he finally just got frustrated and said he's done talking about the same stuff and now he's gotten all these new clothes and he's always dressed and taking pictures and talking about how happy he is and I'm so upset like I obviously didn't want to end our relationship but I needed to because nothing was changing . I'm just so upset and I don't know what to do . Do you think he's as happy as he's portraying himself to be ?