What am I to say/ do?

So for the past few day I've been in a lot of pain and every time I tell my other half he just keeps telling me to lie down and rest or take something for the pain and normally it doesn't bother me but for the past few hours today I've had really bad tight pains lower back and stomach I've tried a warm bath, resting and I've also taking something to try and ease the pain I have also rang midwife.  Twice in the past hour I've ask my fiancé to come give me a back rub  but he's "too busy" on his game and has told me to just try and sleep it off .