My bf works hard dont get me wrong he always keeps a job but i have no fuckn idea where his money goes too we always help eachother out financially but lately ive been having to dig in my pocket way more im only 20 an im college hes 24 nd only working. Idk where his money goes but one thing i do notice is his family they ask for rides give no gas, he constantly helps his mom with bills and food and buying household item which he should since he lives theres but all of his brothers are grown and also lives there and yet he always helps. When he needs a ride they make him give them gas. When his brother ask him to bbysit he leaves no food and he'll spend his money and argue he has to help. We been together 2 years im not his wife ik but should i be able to tell him bout his family and look at where his money goes. He practically stays with me too but yet i buy food, detergent and items on my isn that he uses too. But when i need something hes broke from them and wateva else. And it's hard for a college student who works little hours. We should be moving in together in a few months but if things stay like this i doubt it will happen