This is my second pregnancy and my breasts are much much smaller than my first.  They maybe went up a 1/2 size and my normal bras can still fit tightly.  My question is did you get as engorged once your milk came with your second as you did with your first?  I'm trying to order a bridesmaid dress for a wedding 6 weeks after my due date.  I know everyone is different but I'm just trying to get an idea of what to do.