We have been trying for 18 months ( I understand that is not near as long as 3, 5, maybe even 10 yrs that some of you may be trying) and on the exact year of trying I had a chemical pregnancy. It sucked, but I am ok with it. Every month since then I feel hopeful that "this is the month". Then I feel the sadness when it's not. I try to guard my heart when I see what feels like EVERYONE you know is announcing they are pregnant. I guess this is just me, reminding myself that it is going to be ok, and I will get pregnant. I won't give up, I am going to once again feel hopeful that: "This is the month."