Which would you choose?
Back when I was a strict Christian, a friend of mine (who was the same faith as me, but he wasn't as strict), asked me this question:
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You can only choose one, and you HAVE to pick one.
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-- Guy A: Your soulmate. You love eachother greatly and everything is pretty much as perfect as it can be. BUT he isn't Christian, will never be Christian, and while he supports your choice, he also won't ever attend church activities with you.
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-- Guy B: His faith is as strong as yours. He loves The Lord, is a great man and you two get along "ok", but there's no actual love in the relationship. He isn't romantic towards you, nor you towards him, and there's just no desire between you two. It's an utterly loveless relationship and will -always- be loveless.
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I ask this because I've seen a lot of women on this app saying how they could never be with someone who wasn't of their faith - or someone who wasn't Christian at all. So I'm curious about this.
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My answer is what made me rethink my religion. Without hesitation I chose Guy B. I felt that in that scenario, it's what God would want, and I felt it was what my family would want - and I had to do right by both of them.
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So which one would you choose?
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