Does he love me ?

Me and my boyfriend have been together almost 2 months. He got out of a bad relationship well still in the process of divorce of 15 years so he's really reserved. we care so much for each other its unreal. I've honeslty never felt like this before. He got drunk one night and told me he loved me then said no no no its too soon and that was the end of it. Well anyways everytime I bring up saying it he ignores it. I really love him but I'm scared to tell him since he hasn't told me. How long is normal before its said ?