What do I do now

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Yesterday I went to the Dr and found out that is was bleeding (a week ago)  cause I was miscarrying. I started bawling I called my best friend and also told my mother and she said well that's his way of saying you didn't need another baby. My husband only has a 14% chance of having kids. So we had our own miracle. I just don't know what to do or feel i am so confused to all the ladies out there how did you mourn? I feel so broken

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I just had a miscarriage on the 11th, I cried until I couldn't anymore, and then I told myself that the baby probably wasn't healthy (I was only 5 weeks) and it was for the best. It took me over a week to feel comfortable going to work, I know its hard but it will get easier.

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My best friend text me this morning I love you never forget I spent most of yesterday crying and today I feel like I am just going through the motions

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I told myself that my baby was too beautiful and precious to be on the earth. It helped me cope along with crying every 15 minutes or so.

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For me, I told myself it just wasn't the right time. A few months later, our room mate turned into a crackhead and got us all kicked out, so my husband and I were homeless. Turns out I was right.

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Ouch. If it's possible, try to distance yourself from her? You don't need someone who's first reaction is something like that.

Did the doctor do anything at all? Is there anything to do? I'm sorry this is happening 💖

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I'm sorry you're going through this. Your mother's comment is inappropriate, though. It's inconsiderate to tell a grieving mother that there is a reason for miscarriage. Do you have a friend or relative who is a good listener? I'd reach out to them.

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